 |
What's ... Love? | |||
| It's a mix of feelings, in a relationship, that come and go | |
So what are these feelings? |
Pleasure, Interest & Sexual desire (intimacy) |
| So what happens with these feelings ... |
Your feelings are not always simple & easy to understand Feelings can be long & short term ... and can be restricted by actual & imagined pressures including time apart, poor communications and distance plus gossip, guesses and jealousy. |
|
Extra issues
due to FLY IN / FLY OUT activities |
Connection, disconnection, reconnection. disconnection can occur through life, and fly in/fly out just makes this a more frequent process ... So we need ways to reduce the impact or completely stop the fallout issues on relationships and family interaction! |
|
What are some ideas worth thinking about ... |
Step back and count to 10 ... Go somewhere nice & neutral ... and talk about your feelings Make a call (see phone rules), send an email, write a letter ... whatever your partner likes Work out what is important and what is OUTSIDE your relationship. |
|
| Relationship warning signs Things that you might have to deal with ... ASAP |
Anger Disappointment The clash of your private vs public values Long term child illness that demands your partner's time. Filling relationship gaps with wasteful 'junk' (vd 'good stuff') Infidelity that breaks the unwritten contract between partners Cross cultural issues can cause the disconnection process. |
|
 |
||
What is anger &
ways to control it.
|
||
| Disappointment | Rough language | |
| Other useful stuff .... |
 |
A number of western economies depend on the credit card |
 |
|
|
|||||
 |
 |
||||