Having an ACTION PLAN
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			The lists can be on paper or on a PDA ... both can work well if you both use the lists!	Suggested ACTION PLAN download

	1	Have 2 plans .... one for home and the other on site
	2	At regular times, (say once a week), make sure that both lists are: up-to-date, with added changes, and completed projects ....     ... maybe best done with a phone call, but emails, faxes and even the mail are useful.
	3	Have a separate ACTION PLAN for work stuff.

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Circumstances in life do change and sometimes seem out of control but with the right foundations in place you will survive. A check list for this area would be firstly to "treat your partner with respect"... keep each other informed ... and have quality time together where you can plan for the present and the future. From my life experience whether its a right or wrong thing ... to be heard and understood is very... very... important. Remember don't be so judgemental of your partner's ideas... keep talking it through  ....                                                       count to 10, if you have to!

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